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Ack!!!

Ok, dating rule #38:

In any given relationship, the dumper shall wait until the dumpee indicates that they feel like striking up a friendship before initiating friendly contact. Until then contact should be avoided whenever possible. If contact must be made it should be made with the realization that the dumpee probably HATES the dumper (unless they indicate otherwise).

Damn it. I Heard from the ex today. Apparently 2 months was supposed to be enough time for me to feel all better about the whole cheating on me and dumping me thing. She even had the nerve to act surprised/hurt that I was still not feeling particularly chatty with her.

Grrrr....

(no, I didn't back down from being grumpy at her, but it annoyed me more that I had to deal with her being upset at me for something so stupid)

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In any given relationship, the dumper shall wait until the dumpee indicates that they feel like striking up a friendship before initiating friendly contact. Until then contact should be avoided whenever possible.

Rule 39: if the dumpee DOES contact the dumper the dumper should not ignore the contact and pretend to still be following rule 38.

not that this relates to your situation... I'm just still pissed at Brian for the whole "I thought you didn't want to hear from me". Um, yeah, that would explain why I sent you email ASKING YOU QUESTIONS! Those were not rhetorical questions! "Oh. Uh. I forgot about that."

anyway, sorry your ex is also being a dumbass. what is it with dumbass exes these days?
what is it with dumbass exes these days?

Heh, after the shit hit the fan in this particular situation a friend asked me why I always seemed to end up with people who did stuff like that to me.

I seem to have an innate ability to find and date people who will find new and interesting ways (and sometimes old and proven ways) to stomp on my feelings and then not understand why I get mad at them.

I'm still trying to figure out what to do about that observation (which is disturbingly accurate).

I don't blame you for still being mad at Brian. That whole mess definitely takes "bad way to break-up and deal with things afterwards" to a whole new level. He single handedly raised the bar on being a putz.